While there are many elderly folk who have become adept with the times and technology, there are many who are not.
What I'm saying is online dating might not be the most advantageous way to date.
And to be fair , all men on this site, including me, as we age, will have to face these questions and considerations.
I don't think a full medical disclosure is needed, but I think a very subtle discussion of your functionality in your profile would clear up a lot of unspoken questions by women in your age bracket.
It sounds like maybe it was just a little too much too soon for her. I suggest you try to find out what women over 55 want on an individual basis rather than trying to form some sort of consensus of opinion. I can talk the talk, walk the walk, and write like a poet if I so desire. I would assume that any women that is over 55 and is physically active will also enjoy sex.
If you want a quick all encompassing answer ( even thought it's just for fun ) you could just go with the line from the Rolling Stones song Some Girls " American girls want everything in the world you could possibly imagine"Ok, enough of what I should not have done. The problem for me, at my age, is that I do not have a great deal of choices or resources for meeting older women. I already know everybody that goes into the grocery store. If they are on Po F, it's even more likely they will enjoy sex.
I don't think it's something women ask, but to be fair, as men age, sometimes it's an issue.On line dating for me goes like this: Meet someone, exchange some emails, try to arrange schedules and finally meet a month later after driving for an hour or more. Could be she will have doubts about you and find a way to ask.For me, I go on a date to enjoy an activity I like with a women.The "game" has not changed sir, it simply has gotten more fierce.Good luck to you, sir, I'm sure that many of the younger guys on here, including me, hope to look as vibrant and active as you do in your photos when we reach your age.